My First Fetlife Meet

A few years ago I experienced my first Fetlife event at the Gatehouse in Bolton.

It was a Friday night and the wife was away. 

I had been locked in chastity for around 2 weeks and denied the whole time. 

I had asked the wife to go to events with me but she flat-out refused and told me jokingly that if I wanted to go to events like this then I would have to go without her, so I did, but I'm keeping that a hard secret.

I drove to the event, heart pounding with nerves to see what it was all about. I arrived and had to tell the lady behind the door my Fetlife name so she could check it against the list of confirmed attendees. 

After I was verified, she let me in and quickly started putting my mind at ease. I was early so the first to arrive, she gave me a tour of the club and explained all of the rules. 

We went back to the bar where I had a single can of lager as I was driving later on. 

More attendees started arriving and they were all as friendly as the last. 

I got chatting with a few people around the bar and it quickly became apparent that there is some kind of unwritten rule among kinksters that if we see each other in real life we just ignore each other. 

This gave me a confidence boost, as the last thing I wanted was for one of them to see me with the wife in the street and say something incriminating. 

At one point a guy asked me if I would like to join him at the glory hole, unfortunately, nerves got the better of me and I turned him down, I regret not taking this opportunity. 

Later on, I got chatting with two more people who I really got along with, it turned out one of the men was also locked in chastity. He asked if I could show him my cage, so we went into a dark room on the side and we got each other's cages out, he gently fondled my balls and said it looked cute but due to nerves, this went no further. 

The kink scene that night was mainly centred around guys getting spanked and whipped by dominant women, this is a part of the fetish scene that does not turn me on so I did not partake or take any pleasure from watching.

In hindsight, I wish I had made more of this first experience but I was so nervous I just bottled out at every opportunity.

I would love to visit again if and when they may put on a chastity and ballbusting-related event and the wife is away as I feel I would get a lot more out of that.

The gatehouse in Bolton is very well equipped, clean, and secure, and the staff are super friendly and welcoming, I would 100% visit there again.

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