Ideas for the Dominant

Chastity Cage Ideas for the Dominant

On this page, you will find chastity cage-related scenarios that I have either experienced first-hand or fantasised about. If I had a wife that would fulfil all of these fantasies I would be a very happy man!

1. Chastity Cage Check

The Dominant reserves the right to have the chastity sub prove that they are still locked at ANY time by the sub showing them their locked cock and balls, refusal will result in a swift kick to the balls, or any other punishment the dominant sees fit.

2. Random Ballbusting

The dominant is encouraged to slap the sub's balls whenever they feel like it. If the sub tries to protect themselves from such an advance, they must get their locked cock and balls out and accept the slap on their naked balls instead. My wife regularly slaps me in the balls when crossing paths in the house or when we are sat watching TV together, sometimes if it's a long film it gets quite intense, but I love it!

3. Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)

The dominant is encouraged to humiliate the size of the subs cock on a regular basis, especially when seeing it locked up in it's chastity cage. My wife often jokes about my tiny cock, even when attending parties with friends.

Ideas for phrases include:

"Awww, it's so small and cute"

"OMG, I forgot how tiny it is"

"It's like a cock but smaller"

"You could never pleasure me with that pathetic thing"

"I've seen bigger cocktail sausages"

"That's why you are locked up in a tiny chastity cage"

4. Naked Slave

A hot fantasy that I've not experienced yet is being the dominant's naked slave for the day.

Upon waking up in the morning to going to bed at night the sub must be naked, only wearing their chastity cage for the full day.

The sub must do ANYTHING the dominant orders them to do, this could be house chores, DIY, pampering the dominant, Anything...

If the sub is a good boy, the next day the dominant may, or may not reward the sub.

5. Simulated Cuckold

The sub must watch the dominant fuck herself with a large dildo, either manually or using one of those fuck machines.

The sub can either watch or help but without touching themselves. Helping could be licking her clit whilst she's getting fucked or sucking on her nipples whilst rubbing her clit with their fingers etc etc.

The dominant should comment on how big the simulated cock is and how the subs tiny cock could never please her in this way, tell him how good the larger cock is and that you might never unlock him.

Ask the sub if he would like to see a real cock this big sliding in and out of his wife like this whilst moaning in pleasure.

6. Cuckold

This is by far my biggest fantasy at the moment but my wife flat-out refuses to cuckold me because she would consider it cheating even though I want her to do it. I have fantasised about several scenarios of being cuckolded so I'll try to describe these fantasies in the best way I can below:

A. Cuckold Voyer

The sub is tied to a chair whilst locked in chastity and forced to watch their better half fuck a well-hung guy. 

The dominant and the guy should regularly verbally humiliate the sub during the session.

The dominant should regularly tell the sub how much better this huge cock feels in comparison to the subs.

B. Cuckold Fluffer

Whilst locked in a chastity cage, the sub must get both the dominant and the guy ready to fuck. He must lick her until she is ready and then give him a blowjob until he is ready.

Both the dominant and the guy should verbally humiliate the sub throughout this fluffing.

When they are both ready to fuck the sub must watch without touching himself.

C. Cuckold Cleaner

After the dominant and the guy have both the cum, the sub is to be ordered to clean them both up with is mouth, swallowing everything he licks up. He should get his tongue deep into her to get all that creamy goodness out of her. He should also deep-throat his cock with good suction to make sure he gets every drop out of him. Tell him he's a good boy for licking it up and laugh at him.

D. Cuckold from below

The sub is to be tied to the bed with his face positioned underneath her pussy whilst she gets pounded from behind. 

The sub should lick her pussy and his shaft and balls whilst she is being fucked and suck his cock every now and again if it slips out. 

During this incredible experience, the dominant will have access to the sub's locked-up balls and should regularly squeeze and hit him in the balls as she's being fucked.

When the other guy cums, the sub's mouth should be open ready to swallow everything and lick and suck them both clean afterwards.

E. Pick and Mix

My biggest fantasy would be a mixture of B, C & D. I would love to fluff them both, then lay underneath whilst getting my balls pounded and then clean them both up afterwards. This would be one of the biggest highlights of my life so far if she would do this for me, until then, it's just a fantasy...

7. Hot Wax

This one is a classic, light a candle and drip hot wax all over his locked-up clitty and exposed balls until it's nice and thick and then pull it off, and you will have a wax mould of his locked-up genitals as a souvenir. 

8. Nettle Play

This is one of my favourites and one that we regularly take part in. If you have a cock board, this works better.

Place the subs unlocked genitals through the hole in the cock board and then lock it all in place using a chastity cage.

Pick enough nettles to last for quite a while. (We usually go through a whole shopping bag of nettles in one session.

The dominant gets her favourite toy out, my wife like the Hitachi magic wand, to play with herself whilst she is stinging the fuck out of your balls.

The dominant brushes bunches of nettles over the subs cock and balls and then crushes and squeezes them into your balls to really get that venom in there.

Take short breaks of around 1 minute in between inches to really get the full effect.

Watch as the sub's balls swell in size.

My balls were huge the last time we did this, like two tennis balls in a bag, they really swelled up. It's such a great feeling, I love it!

9. Elecro Stimulation

Another classic! Attach a TENS machines electrode pads to the sub's balls and torment him with the power of electricity!

10. Ballbusting Blackjack (21)

Have £1.00 worth of 5-pence pieces.

Play until 1 person wins.

Hearts: Stood up with legs apart (kicks)

Spades: On all fours with legs apart (kicks)

Clubs: Laying on back with legs spread (slaps)

Diamonds: He tightly stretches and holds balls out (slaps)

If the male wins a round, add the combined number on his cards to a tally.

If he loses a round, hit him in the balls for the combined numbers on his cards and add the number to his tally. (Use the key above for how he takes the blows for each card he holds)

If he wins the game draw a card, depending on the card suit take the following action (add jokers to the deck):

Hearts: Handjob, lube up his cock and stroke him the number of times on his tally.

Spades: Blowjob, suck his cock the number of times on his tally.

Clubs: Sex, allow him full penetration the number of times on his tally.

Diamonds: Footjob, stroke his cock with your feet the number of times on his tally.

Ace: Double his number and carry out the action according to the suit above.

Red Joker: Kick him in the balls the number of times on the tally whilst he is on all fours, then restart the game. 

Black Joker: Slap him in the balls the number of times on the tally whilst he is laying on his back with his legs spread, then restart the game.

If she wins, she delivers the amount of hits to his balls equal to the tally in any position of her choosing. He has to watch her cum with her favourite toy whilst he edges (no cumming) he has to be her naked slave for the rest of the day and do EVERYTHING she says. 

Good luck and may the best sex win!